I want you to
think for a second about your favorite food.
Your favorite dish, whether it’s something homemade or from your
favorite restaurant. Try and remember,
if you can, the feeling you got the first time that food hit your taste
buds. The way the flavors mixed and
mingled on your tongue. The way you felt
the urge, the need to vocalize to
whoever you were eating with about how good it was. The way your brain immediately said, “give me
more!” Now think of the last time you
ate it. Did it evoke the same
reactions? Or was it now something that
was still delicious, still something you enjoyed, but perhaps just a bit too
familiar. A bit predictable. Maybe even a little more bland than it used
to be.
Think about the
first time you ever sat behind the wheel of a car as a driver. Sitting there in the driver’s seat, seatbelt
on, turning the key and feeling the rumble of the engine. Even with as many times as you’d sat in the
car with mom or dad and felt that engine hum, felt it accelerate, this time it
was completely different. This time you
weren’t just feeling the revs, they purred for
you. The car now for the first time
responded to your direction. It was your foot that was pushing down on the
accelerator, your pushing down perhaps a bit too forcefully on the brake. Perhaps you felt as though the speedometer
must surely be broken because it said you were going 30, but you were willing
to swear you were at least 85. Did you
get any of those feelings when you started up the car to come to church today?
Think about your
first girlfriend or boyfriend. Or your
first date with the person who’s now your wife or husband. Think about how you started to smile just
because they walked into the room. Think
about how your heart started racing the first time they sat down next to you,
and your knees or your shoulders happened to touch. Think about how it felt the first time they
held your hand. The electricity that
rand up your arm and throughout the rest of your body. The feeling that this, just holding their
hand in yours, might be the greatest thing in the world. When’s the last time holding their hand made
you feel that way? When’s the last time
you even held each others' hands as you watched a movie, or went for a walk?